my topic today is : BGR.

what is BGR? it's the short term for boy-girl relationship.in my opinion, a boy and a girl come together to have a closer relationship after a period of getting-to-noe each other.the 'i love you' part comes after the 2 parties truly noe each other well thru experiences and memories together until they realised 'she/he's the one for me' CORRECT??? such relationships are hard to come by and are definitely more lasting.

another situation would be the physical attraction case.feel that it's quite common in this society.people basically look out for a specific physical feature of another person which they are attracted to, and juz because of that, they feel that they are in love with that person.superficial u may say, but sadly, i think this is how the society works.any rebutts? haha not to deny, sometimes even i myself think it that way. some may think that such relationship arent lasting because the feeling fades.come to think of it, if tt's ur lifetime partner, u're gonna face him for the rest of your life ya? maybe, there is first the physical attraction, which motivates one to know more about the other party rite? feelings can be nurtured from there aint it? on second thoughts, chances of sucess arent great.haha.

next situation.it's not the physical attraction.some start from friends.take students for example, the 2 may be in the same sch, same class, same cca, same project work group..basically u can see they will work constantly together and they get closer together because of work. They may not realise it initially, but of course, one or both of them may start to realise eventually that they enjoy each other's company.the sadder case would be, one is emotionally attached (but doesnt have a official stead) and the other juz realises he/she has fallen for her/him. last case, they're simply not attracted to each other, end of story.

Nowadays, getting attached may be as simple as ABC for some. i used to feel quite negative about getting a boyfriend because my parents had simply brainwashed me by telling me all the scary and frightening possibilities that can happen if u're with a boy.maybe i'm starting to understand alittle about that.but hey? tt cant be a teenager's life rite? maybe they may term bgr as bad but i find that experience counts.in some way or another, it teaches you to be more mature, to think more about what kind of person you wanna spend the rest of ur life with.

Issit that simple afterall? Everyone has their own expectations of their partners.maybe they wan someone who is pretty/handsome or shy/daring or outdoor/indoor personality. i've heard that jc girls have rather high expectations of their boys but is that true? i think girls basically juz wan a guy who is sincere and respects them.the bonus of him being handsome or cute is of course all the better.haha.

oh wells.juz some of my thoughts here.
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wahh..i went for music lesson today.i forgotten to bring my tcher's present!!!! wahh i so sad lahhhhh but i was rushing out of the hse already and i was 20 mins' late okie! piano today was quite enjoyable.lol..i laughed quite abit.though i m not so close to my tcher but i like to go for piano lessons! haha..in that not say big, not say small room i can juz forget abt the everyone i noe..be detached from my own social circle for awhile and forget who i m.juz concentrate on my piano for that one hour.it's good.helps relieve some stress somehow.i really can forget everything.but of course sometimes quite sad la..cos nvr practice then i cannot play fluently then my tcher not very happy.i also so pek cek.

went to swim after tt.good.it's so sunny.but i din quite really tan man..dunno why.sickenings..i swam quite abit.thought about things or maybe i din.juz swam n swam.enjoy the sun.enjoy looking at some ppl around.okok la..i think 70% of the population are guys ok? hahaha..but tt's human nature wad!!to look at the opposite sex.see whether they good looking or not mahs or it's not human nature? ohoh.haha..in any case, i look right also got guys.look left also haf.dun see guys then see what? or play spot that ant on tt tree? i was so proud of myself.there was this lady, she started from the same pt as me and i went of after she swam out for about one metre or so..i swam 2 laps non stop..so after i finished..she was behind me! hahahaha..wahh..i over took her okaes..lol..ahya..i noe she swam quite slow..but at least i noe i faster than her wad..haha.the feeling of overtaking..is quite good. left after one hr or so..

yups..until now.i'm here blogging..listening to the nice nice songs i dld-ed yest..

i will not think of it.yepps.